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Friday, October 3, 2008

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最近我感到很矛盾。有一天和二哥与大姐闲谈,谈谈着,谈到了有关男女感情的话题。我感到好奇地向他们俩发问:“为何你们到现在还没有另一半呢?”大姐自从与她的男友分手后,就没有再交男朋友了。二哥则更奇怪,一副优质帅气的外表,却从来没交过女友,真令人摸不着头脑。他们说,大学时期是最容易找男女朋友的,因为人际范围较大。相反地,现在他们都在工作,甚少机会认识到较多的人。姐还鼓励我在大学时期找个女友。这时我想回以前妈对我说过,大学时期不要拍拖,应专注于学业,毕业出来再找也不迟。那我该听谁的呢?我害怕一旦在大学时期交女友,成绩会一落千丈,况且我现在没有女友,成绩也相当地差了。可是,我已经成年了,会有交女友的冲动,也盼望着谈一场“童话”式的恋爱呀!我该怎么做呢?
************************************************************************************各位亲爱的到访者,请你们抽出一点时间,在此留下你们的意见,小弟我将感激不尽!!

14 声响屁!!:

Carrot Blue said...

haiyo
if u really wan 2 hv a relationship, just go.
u noe, 先上车后补票, if u reali met a girls u lik here so much, juz go n woo her. tel ur family after some time u had 拍拖 v the girl, let them noe tat u can manage urself^^
if u reali miss a girls tat is reali nice, tat would very 可惜 lo...
just a suggestion...

(",) said...

dats mean have to 随缘 lor. But, izzit sounds like lying to my mum..? Aiyo, mayb i think until too far dy, no gals interested v me pun.....haiz....

Anonymous said...

focus on ur studies better lar

later will find de lar

Why u are so afraid

we are still young

wao....

(",) said...

but owaz study n study very boring de lar....have to find some entertainment...ur suggestion still can be accepted, thnx ya!

Anonymous said...

aiyo, need so trouble meh? just follow your feeling la. u also said ur mum told you when u r child. that might not able to apply on world today.

however, no people interest on you or you no interest on other? relationship can be fostered de... hahahah

roader..

★Mynń★ said...

bcoz u'r people girlfriend lolz....wakakakak~38

★Mynń★ said...

aiyor~kawan,'shun qi zi ran' lor~why so worry? ur mom also haven worry about ur cute bro rite?!

(",) said...
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(",) said...

To Mr/Ms. Anonymous:
I duno who u r and i'm not sure whether i know you onot. But, i'm pleased that you dropped your comments here and i'm really appreciate it. Plz b welcomed to do so for my every posts,k? Thnx.

To (.min.):
Hello frenz, my mum do started to worry bout my bro dy oh~ Scared him to b alone for his rest life, wakaka~:P

Aeron said...

if u can meet some one 'special' that u like then dun let it pass like tat lo...jz take action 2 chase her...d important things is dun let urself regret....& try 2 discuss wit ur mum lo, i think he will let u date de...cos u 21years old dy....can consider it o...:P

(",) said...

To 12345:
U mean u agree that i can start dating n having a gf from now on, rite? My mum part i think i can settle coz i'm quite close v my mum. Mayb i was thinking too much and worried of a lot of things.... Juz follow my feeling is better, i think...Thnx for ur precious advice yo~

Anonymous said...

actually support you to hav a gf IF you hav some "funny" feeling wit a gal...wakaka..
if you dont take action now, r you sure you will hav tat chance nextime...
dont wait for tat chance, if you missed it this time, maybe you wont get it another time.
n see your mom is worry abt your bro now, n surely you dont wan her to b worry abt you jus like to your bro rite?
n be confident to handle both study n love together, its nothing different fr fren relationship except closer relationship nia.. you can manage la.. hehe... good luck.

Anonymous said...

i think u become a big boy already la... can handle ur own life already.. its a nice try to hv a gf now as long as u already hv目标。i think u mum can accept what u choose laa.....以上纯属个人意见。

(",) said...

To mOn:
Hi, who r u actually? Nvmind, wat do u meant by 'funny' feeling? And i did lost a lot of chances dy coz everytime i dun take any actions and ya, my deadly weakness is i lack of self confidence in Love of coz though i tried to act like very confident all the time.
Thnx for ur advice:P

To chi:
CC rite? Aiya, i became a big boy dy but not big man maa...Try to have a gf ar? Scared ler....